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Seasoned professional with 30+ years of clinical, training, and leadership experience
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408-359-7427
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First, About you....
Therapy is about you: About your goals, challenges, opportunities, relationships, health, and happiness. Are you struggling with a transition -- say, between life stages, relationally, career, identity? Are you looking to strengthen and deepen your relationships? Are you trying your best to manage depression, anxiety, emotional reactivity? Are you simply... stuck?
About me....
An esteemed professor, early in my clinical training (almost four decades ago) explained that therapists really devise a specific therapy collaboratively with each client, according to their needs. This is truly how I work. Throughout my years of experience, I have been fortunate to work with many clinicians and take lots of continuing education from which I have learned many different theories, techniques, methods, approaches to therapy -- Psychodynamic, Gestalt, Internal Family Systems, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Brainspotting, Brief Dynamic Psychotherapy, Gottman Couples' Therapy, among others. I bring the richness of all those perspectives and ways of working to each encounter, working with you to find what works best for your uniqueness.
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If it helps to know: I'm a mixed-race, mature gay man in a long term relationship. I'm poly-friendly, kink-friendly, LGBTQIAH -friendly, social-, gender-, and racial- justice allied (yes, woke). I'm a former software engineer, consultant, instructor, a dog dad, an aspiring artist-musician, and love the outdoors and all kinds of activities in the wild. My favorite human characteristics are those I try to embody: Kindness, curiosity, and honesty. I tend to be quite interactive as a therapist. If you're curious, here's my linkedin profile, and my PsychologyToday listing.
Anything else -- just ask. I probably won't mind answering if it is helpful.​​